{"id":1711,"date":"2025-01-29T15:32:22","date_gmt":"2025-01-29T15:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/?p=1711"},"modified":"2025-01-29T15:32:22","modified_gmt":"2025-01-29T15:32:22","slug":"do-you-love-me-like-you-say-you-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/?p=1711","title":{"rendered":"Do you love me like you say you do\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There are studies that show a cats intelligence level (quantifying intelligence comparatives can be tricky given species have different thought processes) is close to that of a toddler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With that in mind, I\u2019ve been considering a situation that arose a couple of years ago where I inadvertently caused offence to someone who often crates strays to acclimatise them to people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously this isn\u2019t something that would be a normal environment for a cat, and recently I started wondering if the responses people exhibit when feeling threatened (if a cat is forced into a situation that isn\u2019t familiar I can\u2019t see them feeling anything else) are also present in our feline counterparts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In short, I wondered if the fawn response humans exhibit is a behaviour a cat would use as a survival tactic as well. And if that is the case, is what we perceive to be a cat adapting to our presence simply a defence mechanism? This isn\u2019t discounting the possibility that changes in behaviour may be the development of genuine trust over time. But what if the initial behaviour we perceive as a breakthrough is simply a cat feeling they have limited options but to react in a certain way?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In human psychology, there are five recognised trauma responses. Fight, flight, freeze, fawn and flop. In cats, we acknowledge the first three responses as behaviour they\u2019re likely to exhibit when there\u2019s a situation they\u2019re unsure of.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If a cat is likely to exhibit three of the five trauma responses recognised in people, isn\u2019t there a possibility they could exhibit the other recognised human trauma responses &nbsp;in an unfamiliar or unsettling environment?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously this is a subject I\u2019ll be seeking further clarification on, hopefully studies already exist on the subject.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/BBD9F434-672F-433F-A160-2F5B2770E66E.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"856\" height=\"642\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/BBD9F434-672F-433F-A160-2F5B2770E66E.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1712\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/BBD9F434-672F-433F-A160-2F5B2770E66E.jpeg 856w, https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/BBD9F434-672F-433F-A160-2F5B2770E66E-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/BBD9F434-672F-433F-A160-2F5B2770E66E-768x576.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 856px) 100vw, 856px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Trust building takes time\u2026<\/em><br>(Mim, a former stray I socialised who spent a good decade with people who loved him. He was crated overnight after his neuter in the entirety of socialising.)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are studies that show a cats intelligence level (quantifying intelligence comparatives can be tricky given species have different thought processes) is close to that of a toddler. 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