{"id":581,"date":"2019-06-30T20:30:48","date_gmt":"2019-06-30T20:30:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/?p=581"},"modified":"2019-06-30T20:34:37","modified_gmt":"2019-06-30T20:34:37","slug":"growing-pains","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/?p=581","title":{"rendered":"Growing pains&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>During this time of year, I see a lot of posts on social\nmedia requesting kittens to join families with young children. They regularly\nstate how the parent is hoping their child and the kitten will grow together\nand form a special bond. &nbsp;&nbsp;While I appreciate the idea of this happening\nis absolutely beautiful, the reality is often different.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kittens are as a rule very active. Interactive play is\nessential for them to grow into a cat that is comfortable in social settings.\nBut they need to be taught the interactive play, and they aren\u2019t always gentle\nwhen they\u2019re learning. Children are obviously also learning; and mastering\nanother species warning signals and body language can be challenging enough as\nan adult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kittens also require a lot of attention due to their energy\nlevels. And sometimes, they haven\u2019t quite perfected the use of a designated\ntoileting area. Basically, they\u2019re navigating a lot of challenges, just as a small\nchild would be. And as with a human child during their learning time, a lot of\npatience is required.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By comparison, a lot of slightly well socialised older cats\nhave become calmer and more tolerant. They give signals they aren\u2019t happy to\nhave contact in a much more concise fashion, and are likely to move away and\nfind their own space if they feel overwhelmed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cats and babies can absolutely coexist successfully in a home. But two babies, whether they\u2019re the same species or not, are going to be constantly learning and adapting. And that\u2019s likely to add a fair amount of stress to day to day routine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"605\" height=\"456\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/staring.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/staring.jpg 605w, https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/staring-300x226.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 605px) 100vw, 605px\" \/><figcaption>Watching the world pass by&#8230;..<br>Source: Boredpanda<br>See more photos here:  <br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.boredpanda.com\/kids-and-cats\/\">https:\/\/www.boredpanda.com\/kids-and-cats\/<\/a> <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>During this time of year, I see a lot of posts on social media requesting kittens to join families with young children. They regularly state how the parent is hoping their child and the kitten will grow together and form&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/581"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=581"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/581\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":583,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/581\/revisions\/583"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailurophile.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}